Sunday, August 25, 2019

One of the most important days of Jennie's life!

Roy and I had the joyful experience of taking Jennie to the temple so she could take out her endowments.  The matron that spoke with Jennie before her temple experience told her that this was the most important day of her life thus far--she that the only day that will trump it, is October 3, when she is sealed to her eternal companion.  I don't think I have thought about this experience in quite that way before, and in thinking about it, I realized that it is true.  Everything in our church experience points to getting us to the point of getting to the Temple, and then the blessings are beyond our comprehension.  We had a wonderful, peaceful evening.  We were grateful at least one of Jennie's siblings (Nick), could join us in the experience.  Jordan's sister, Ariana and her husband, were also with us.  I wish I had taken a picture of those of us who were at the Temple, but I didn't think about it.

Jennie and Jordan


I mentioned a couple of weeks ago how my mother always liked her kids in school--and my kids agree!  I got some cute Back to School pictures from everyone.  The Green boys had awesome haircuts, and it looks like everyone got some new clothes.  Even Mav got to start school and have pictures taken.  I think Ruby and maybe Finn are the only ones that haven't started yet.










I took Christine out to lunch on Thursday because I had a $12 coupon at Red Butte Cafe.  We both ordered salmon--mine had a Mexican flair, and hers was more standard, but both were completely consumed because they were delicious.  It was fun catching up and talking about our kids, upcoming weddings, busy schedules... I always enjoy being with my sisters.  We sent Nan a Marco Polo and let her know we were thinking about her.  

As Stake YW President, I was in charge of a multi-stake dance yesterday.  There were nine stakes involved.  I started working on this back in January when I went to the previous multi-stake dance to see what would be expected of me.  I found that this stake had hired a decorator and DJ to do the dance, and thought that was a fabulous idea.  I made arrangements for this and then didn't worry too much about it until a month or so ago when I had to send out information and publicity to all nine stakes.  The biggest responsibility was set-up and clean-up.  Even though we hired the decorator, we really only hired her stash of stuff--we were required to find the man-power.  The YM presidency was also in charge, but I felt like I did most everything.  The YM President assigned one of his counselors  (Brandon Pace, who interestingly works for Geneva Rock) to be in charge of finding people to help with set-up and clean-up.  The President didn't even show up until clean-up, but Brandon was there all day.  I asked my counselors how they would have felt if I'd just assigned them to handle the dance and left them to it--they didn't think much of that idea.  My presidency were there alone for the duration of the dance, then Brandon showed up to relieve us and run the clean-up.  He had a crew of  12 volunteers, but I have no idea how many showed up because we (Roy, me and my two counselors) were exhausted, so we went home.  I did tell him that if he found he didn't have enough help he could call me and Roy.  He really didn't seem to mind the assignment.  He said that he doesn't feel like his calling is that busy and he didn't mind taking a day to fulfill his responsibilities.  
Roy is always a star in helping and supporting me in my callings and he came with me at 8:00 just to be there if we needed him.  He would have helped all day, but he and Matt did their annual Century bike ride up in Logan.  He was talking to a couple who were chaperoning at the dance, and the husband asked Roy, "Why are you here?"  He said, "My wife is the Stake YW president and I'm just her to support her." His wife looked at her husband and said, "See, other husband's are happy to help their wives with their callings."  I guess he really didn't want to be there!





Setting up the decorations.  It's hard to see here just how complicated
the lighting and everything was.

My presidency: Tammy Mederios, Diana McDonald, Kathy Hurst, and me.


The youth enjoying all our efforts!

We took a tally of which stakes were represented when the kids came through the doors.  We had 321 kids (unless some snuck in without being accounted for).  It seemed like a decent crowd.  The one I went to in January had closer to 500.    When you think that we were drawing from nine stakes the number wasn't very big.

Matt, Dwight Galloway, Roy, Mike Nelson
The Annual Cache Valley Century

Roy was able to watch Ollie play soccer.  He scored two touchdowns and
two extra points for his team.  He's quite the athlete!



On Sunday Caitlyn spoke in her Singles Ward.  She was assigned to talk on "Patience in Trials" a perfect subject as she's had to learn a lot about patience this summer.  
Caitlyn

Maverick, in mommy's shoes

And, last but not least, Baby Bridget

Story of the week:  Elise was helping Maverick pray and she said, "and bless the baby in Mommy's tummy."  He repeated the words and finished the prayer and Elise looked at Andy.  He was helping the kids with the food and she said, "Did you even listen to the prayer?"  He repeated part of the prayer back to her, but somehow he totally missed this little tidbit.  So, announcement, Elise is expecting!


Monday, August 19, 2019

Shakespeare Festival, The 200th birthday of Phineas Wolcott Cook, and Bridget Carina Vance's baby blessing.

Activities are escalating as summer moves quickly toward the end.  Roy and I have had tickets to the Shakespeare plays for over a year.  When we found that Elder Cook couldn't speak to the family on the 24th, but he could do it on the 17th, we had to shuffle our play tickets so we could be home in time for the Phineas Wolcott Cook 200th birthday celebration that our Cook Family Organization board has been planning for the last four years.  With that shuffling, we managed to see all of the offerings at the Festival in 5 days.  We even added in Sound of Music at Tuachan Theater in St. George.
We left Monday morning and drove to Beaver, where we ate at Cancun, one of our favorite Mexican restaurants.  We made great time and were in Cedar City before we could check into our B&B, so we walked main street for a little while.  Our first play was Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat, which we have seen before, but through experience we've realized if we choose not to see a play in Cedar City, we're usually disappointed when we hear people raving about it.
I don't think I ever realized how short this play is (especially compared with Shakespeare).  It was only an hour with an added 15 minute sing along that was fun and entertaining.  We enjoyed the play, but though the lead was talented, he wasn't Donny Osmond.  After the play, we had time for a short rest before we drove to Gloria and Mike Toomey's home in St. George (Fern Rasband's sister and brother-in-law).  They had a nice summer dinner prepared for us and we enjoyed visiting with them.  Sound of Music didn't start until 8:30 (it's probably too hot to start earlier).  The lead actors were fabulous and the music was excellent.  They added a few unfamiliar songs, and both Roy and I felt they could have easily cut them and made the play shorter, but other than that it was excellent.  We didn't get to bed until after 1:00 because of having to drive back to Cedar City.

Mike, Gloria, Catharine and Roy.  
Usually we see people we know, but this trip we didn't run into anyone that we didn't plan on seeing.

We saw Hamlet and Macbeth both on the same day.  6 1/2 hours of heavy drama! The other offerings were Twelfth Night, The Book of Will, Every Brilliant Thing, and finally, Henry the VI parts 2 and 3.  They did this last one as one play and it was over 4 hours with an hour break in between.  The break was only supposed to be 30 minutes, but one of the actresses got sick and we had to wait for an understudy to show up.  The play was still interesting, but the understudy had to use her book and she was a little bit of a weak actress.  In the final act she played Richard III, who had some important lines, and I think we missed some of them.  Even the actress she took over for was weak for such an important part in the end.  There were 82 different characters in the play, played by a cast of about 10, so her roles weren't very important until the end.  I hope they get a better Richard III for the play of the same name next year.  We saw Henry the VI Friday, and as soon as it was over (6:00 pm), we got in the car and headed home.  

Catharine and Roy at Bulloch's Drugstore in Cedar City

During the week we got in a lot of walking and one really good hike.  I hiked the creek well, but tripped on the uneven Cedar City sidewalks and went straight down.  Luckily, I only have a couple of scrapes on my knee (and a small one on the back of my hand) to show for it.  Our hike was to Kanarraville Falls.  The start of the hike is just road, but once you get into the canyon you're in and out of the creek to get to the waterfalls.  We read that it was 3.8 miles round trip (which is how far we hiked), but you could go quite a bit further to get to the end and more Falls.  Roy's shoes didn't have great treads and there was a rickety ladder to climb.  We didn't bring lunch because we knew we'd be finished in time, so we weren't prepared to keep hiking.  Next year we'll go prepared with water shoes and lunch.  We also found out about another hike that is adjacent to this one but less well known.  We'll try that one next year, too.

Catharine and Roy in the creek just before we
reached the Falls. 
Henry VI is a play that is rarely produced, especially parts 2 and 3.  I'm glad we were able to see it.  Henry VI was a weak king because all he desired was peace when everyone around him desired power.  During the sacrament today, I thought about the Savior, who has all power and could have come to earth to subdue everyone under his rule, but instead humbled himself to become an example for us and ultimately give his life for us.  In the play, almost everyone who had any authority was killed in the crossfire of those desiring the title of king.  It was literally friend against friend, and brother against brother.  In part 3, the director took poetic license and we saw the costumes change from period clothing, to Hitler style uniforms, to the revolutionary war, the civil war, to desert storm and other modern wars.  The weapons changed, too, and sound effects were added of helicopters and war planes overhead.  The point the director was trying to put across is that history repeats itself and men are still desiring power, not caring what the cost will be.  We can learn from history, which is why we have the scriptures to show us the mistakes of men, and the contrasting spiritual aspirations of good men.

We made it home by 10:00 pm which was good because we had the 200th reunion of Phineas Wolcott Cook scheduled for the next morning.  Everything had been set up by others on the board and there wasn't much for me to do when we arrived an hour early, but it was nice to greet people and meet relatives--some that I knew and many that I didn't.  Elder Quentin Cook arrived about 5 minutes before the meeting was to start.  He probably knows that to be too early invites people to come and speak with him.  
Dan Ditto (President) and Bryson Cook (Vice president of genealogy) spoke first.  Dan said that at his home when they celebrate birthdays, everyone says what they love about the person being celebrated, so he talked about what he loved about "Grandfather Cook."  
Elder Cook continued to teach about our ancestor and shared some facts from the history of the time.  He had a power point presentation and it was an excellent talk.  One thing that I took from his talk was, "This is my ancestor, and I'm grateful to him and he's important enough to me to take time out from my busy schedule and share my thoughts with other family members." 
He spoke on Phineas' unbelievable challenges and how he always tried to be diligent, faithful, to live the commandments, to love the Lord, to raise our families in righteousness, and to endure to the end.  Elder Cook said that these should be our goals also.  One thing he talked about that I didn't know was that the wives got along well together.  In Garden City, Ann Eliza was called to be the first Relief Society President.  She called Amanda Polly Savage to be her first counselor.  They worked in these positions for 8 years.  After Phineas' divided his goods among his wives, they built homes next to each other.

He closed with a testimony, saying that he is a "sure witness of the Savior, he guides our church today, He lives.  His atonement is the most significant thing that's ever happened in the history of the world." He then left an apostolic blessing on the family that we will have in our hearts an appreciation of those who have gone before, that we will have gratitude for our ancestors.  He said that if we have children that stray, to be faithful--we will be united when it is most important.  He blessed that we will find peace--individual peace inside us; that we will know that God lives, Jesus Christ is divine and that we can return to our loved ones.

In the 2nd session we saw a video about Phineas' life before he came west.  Bryson and Janet spoke on "finding Janet Porter." An ancestor that they looked for for 30 years. Then Dave presented the video he made of Phineas' years in Goshen, Utah.  He did a great job.  Please look up and watch the videos (even if you saw them at the meeting).   www.cookfamily.org  On the home page under "videos and pdf files..."

Russell Buttars, a relative, and me 

Matt, Ruby and me




Crista and Eliza (almost twins)

Caitlyn, Hyeji, Dojin, Jieun, Ori, Yuna and Dan
Dan Rasband, Shea Sealy and family
Dan Ditto and family (Dan's on the right--President of the organization)
Bryson Cook and some of his family
Alexa, Cynthia, Kelly and her husband, Corey Cook and 3 of Liz' children
Gracie and another Saling.  One of Liz' kids, Chris Saling, Becky, Catharine and Liz

Tasha, her husband and her two kids, Tiffany and Troy 
Some cousins: Jorgesnson family.  Top of table Laurel Jorgensen, Margaret Cook,
 Susan Winterton (maiden name) and her husband.  
Christine, Steve, Eliza and Crista, Sara and Colleen Wright (my cousin's daughter)





I realized while labeling these pictures that I need to learn the names of my great (and great great) nieces and nephews.


After arriving home around 3:00, we napped and then the family came over.  Jieun prepared a Korean dinner for everyone.  She cooked the meat on little Korean grills out on our deck.  It was delicious--Thanks, Jieun! The kids had a ball playing with each other.

But--the weekend was not over yet.  Crista had planned to bless Bridget in our ward because we are a nice half-way point between Logan, where they live, and Mapleton, where the Vance family lives.  It was fun to have most of my family in my ward.  Adrienne and her family were out of town, and Elise, of course, was in Georgia with her family, but everyone else was there.
Matt gave Bridget a beautiful blessing and then we all came over to our home and ate.  Crista had made pulled pork and cookies, and everyone brought something to add to the dinner.
Matt, Crista, Bridget, Greta and Ruby



Yuna, Jordan, Jennie, Caitlyn, Roy, Me, Crista, Bridget, Matt, Jieun, Dan
Greta, Hyeji,  Ori, Doyeon, Ruby and Dojin.



Sunday, August 11, 2019

Keeping kids entertained until school starts (Happy birthday to Elise, today!)

Last Sunday night we had Nick, Dan, Adrienne and their families to dinner.  We had Nick extend an invitation to Paul Oblad, so he came and brought his family, too.  It was fun to see them.  The kids had a blast playing in the yard and throughout the house (as usual), and it was so busy that I didn't get around to writing a letter.
It's been a busy summer with Caitlyn's surgery, Jennie's wisdom teeth, wedding planning etc.  We usually get up to Flaming Gorge a little more often.  However, we are still managing to get in some fun activities.  Adrienne invited everyone over to Green's pool for a swimming day.  I joined them directly after I taught my water aerobics class.  I guess I was watered out because I was happy to just watch.  Of course, the kids all had a blast.  Adrienne's kids are pro-swimmers because they have access to this pool every summer.  Ila is not afraid of the water at all, to the point that you have to watch her because she will just jump in.  My i-phone put together a video of the pictures below and I saved it, but I couldn't figure out how to transfer it here.

Jieun and Bridget

Ori

Ruby, Hyeji
Caitlyn, Greta, Yuna and Crista


Cait and Greta
Yuna


Gunnar
Dojin


Ila and Adrienne

Gunnar and Hyeji
Hyeji
Avie, Sara and Effie


Doyeon
Finn, Adrienne and Ila
Ruby
I remember my mom telling me "I like my kids to be in school."  That was just one statement that went in one ear and out the other until years later when I absolutely felt the same.  In Atlanta the kids had a shorter summer holiday, but more breaks during the school year.  I remember one Christmas when the kids were out for two complete weeks.  When it was time to go back to school, the kids were "blessed" with a snow storm and the school was closed for another week.  I was ready to throw in the towel :)  Now I watch my children with their children trying to keep them busy and active for 3 months.   It's exhausting to watch!  
Dan has been working on graduate school for the last 20 months and he is finally done.  His group did an App on finding mushrooms, their properties, which ones might be edible, etc.  They were chosen to present in a smaller setting in a few weeks, and if he wins he has a chance to win a little money.  There's a lot of competition, though.  Last week, he was able to escape with his family and come to the Rec Center and ice skate.  Of course, I was there, too.  Even Dojin was doing pretty well out on the ice.  






Elise had a little help keeping her family busy--the Jackson's took her and the boys to Disney World.  Andy was too involved in his new residency to go with them.  Below is Bevy, and Elise and her family at Disney


Other things that have been done to keep kids active:
Roy, Caitlyn and I took Hyeji to the play "Spelling Bee"  (weird play).  At the end Hyeji said, "I didn't get any of it but it was fun."   Caitlyn and Hyeji inadvertently dressed as twins. 


Effie enjoying The Friend Magazine:

Yuna, in a moment of boredom, cut her own hair, then Jennie, who used to do the same thing at that age, fixed it.